I was intrigued by one of the topics of Indispire #HappensforaReason . I am not sure whether it will be the next Indispire topic but I felt it to be interesting enough to write as my next topic.
When I was a child my father used to say "Whatever happens, happens for good". Being a child I always used to believe it. As I grew up I started question "Does it really happens for a reason?" Probably yes , probably No. There are many things which hurt us, break us and again by the rule of life we learn to overcome. The only consolation we give ourselves is that we have become more matured and experienced. But I always wonder does every bad incident had to happen in order to make us more strong?
After finishing college when I joined a job I found every single senior to be against me. So much so they were in search of one loop hole to penalize me. There were days when I used to cry at the washroom even in the bus while returning home. I had to show tremendous mental pressure everyday when I went to office and worked with those same people. But not everyone who joined with me suffered this. I am just citing an example. I am aware people around me have much bigger problems than I have. My point is just to say that there are always some unnecessary things happening in our lives which was not required. I started to speak less, became quiet so that I couldnt be bullied. I had to change myself in order to adjust. But again after so many years I have known how to fight for my right. If not mastering it , have at least known the basics.
Long back in a movie whose name I dont remember I found a dialogue "Everything is destined to happen. Whether it is good or bad it will be decided after it actually happens"
Well this is what I believe now that everything is written in destiny. Not everything will happen for good. I have lost many good friends of mine with time. I never leave any of them, they left. I just had to accept.
May be that is why people say " It wont come again is what makes life so sweet"
When I was a child my father used to say "Whatever happens, happens for good". Being a child I always used to believe it. As I grew up I started question "Does it really happens for a reason?" Probably yes , probably No. There are many things which hurt us, break us and again by the rule of life we learn to overcome. The only consolation we give ourselves is that we have become more matured and experienced. But I always wonder does every bad incident had to happen in order to make us more strong?
After finishing college when I joined a job I found every single senior to be against me. So much so they were in search of one loop hole to penalize me. There were days when I used to cry at the washroom even in the bus while returning home. I had to show tremendous mental pressure everyday when I went to office and worked with those same people. But not everyone who joined with me suffered this. I am just citing an example. I am aware people around me have much bigger problems than I have. My point is just to say that there are always some unnecessary things happening in our lives which was not required. I started to speak less, became quiet so that I couldnt be bullied. I had to change myself in order to adjust. But again after so many years I have known how to fight for my right. If not mastering it , have at least known the basics.
Long back in a movie whose name I dont remember I found a dialogue "Everything is destined to happen. Whether it is good or bad it will be decided after it actually happens"
Well this is what I believe now that everything is written in destiny. Not everything will happen for good. I have lost many good friends of mine with time. I never leave any of them, they left. I just had to accept.
May be that is why people say " It wont come again is what makes life so sweet"
So truly said! Could relate every word.
ReplyDeleteThank you Sonal :)
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