Saturday, November 13, 2010

No pain no gain

It was a bright Saturday morning. I was surfing the internet checking my mails in the hope pf getting my joining letter. Well the letter did not arrive but a mail arrived which told me that my blog is being neglected.True. I havent been writing since a month.

In one of my blogs I told about my failures and struggle in getting a job.But when that struggle ended on a happy note I hardly found any topic on which I can write. It is easier to write about failures,struggles but its too difficult to write about success. I kinda think bagging a job might look too tough when I am fighting but once I get it its not worth mentioning,as its not any kinda big achievement.So my blogsite didnt have any particular post based on my success.

Few days back I was reading the Times of India where Mr Amitabh Bacchaan said in order to get success u will have to get the pain..No pain no gain. The words are so true..When I was getting rejection from the jobs every relatives of mine were asking me "what do u do now?you have completed your course right?have you got a job?" No matter how many times do I tell them the questions got repeated. And when I did get a job nobody was there to ask.I didnot want to disclose it though as I dont feel like boasting myself. My parents disclosed it to them but I got a lil congratulations.Well maybe thats life. People find it to be fun to tease someone till the time you dont have the proper answer to give them. But when u have that their grin replaces a fake smile. But I am thankful to all of them as it is by pain only you understand the value of something.

I cried,spent sleepless nights,became tensed,worked hard only to get a job. I said to myself" I will answer them the day I bag it.". But no! I didnot do that. I let them go. I forgive them.Some of my friends were also in the lists. I remember a friend of mine calling me every alternate 3 hours on the day of my interview just to know how I fared. At last when I answered his call I was too tired by the whole day's work and tension. He was amused with my voice tone and laughingly asked "What happened?" I answered "I am selected." The laugh stopped. He replied " Wow great. What did the interviewer asked you?How did you answer......"He hung up. Next again he called twice to get the other details..I became annoyed. Prior to the interview everyone was asking me "how is your preparation going?" And after the job it was "Have you got ur joining letter?"Ufffff....questions never end...

But as I said they are not be blamed. They are still in the same phase which I have passed now.
They are feeling the same pain as I was feeling.

You dont get success..you earn it..U earn it by dint of ur ability,hard work and sufferings.
U have to feel the pain in order to get the success.But ALLZ WELL THAT ENDS WELL.

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