Accept life as it comes

The world is beautiful for those who gets their wishes fulfilled and the cruelest to those whose dreams are shattered to pieces in such a way that they fear from dreaming further.Actually we all are forced to accept everything that comes our way .If that matches our wishes we are more than happy otherwise we must accept what we get as we r left with no options than to leave the world which again would be a source of agony for our loved ones.We keep on praying to God so that the disasters dont happen but what to do if God Himself is against us.Two people love each other,they dream to be together but what to do when the destiny itself doesnt want that? To whom shall we seek the answer of their guilt? What have all of us done to b forced to abide by the laws of destiny? Why should we accept life as it comes and throws its decisions at us? Unfortunately we donot have the answers..All that we can do or rather forced to do is "accept life as it comes" and suffer.