Sunday, August 19, 2012

Life is all about making choices

I cant let it go. I have tried many a time not to think. But no...its simply not working.. I can still fell the pain. What did I do to deserve this? I was not the cause of your suffering then why.....

These questions kept on hovering Anita's mind as she sat quietly beside the window and kept looking at the sky. There are something in life which happen without a reason and that too when you least expect it.  Such was the case with Anita.

In her not-so-good but all in all okayish life thousands of problems to solve, one sudden problem and that too from a close friend of her made her feel restless.

Everything was okay since morning when suddenly a close friend of her called up. Anita being delighted picked up the phone quickly. But little did she comprehend that her close friend was more in a vindictive mood rather than her usual sweet and soft mood.

Since something has not worked properly in her life Anita's friend found it to be a good solution to call up Anita and let out all her frustrations on her. And Anita being too taken aback didnt find the actual words to fit her reply. Anita's friend was relieved of all her frustrations because Anita didnt treat her in the same way. Little did she realise that by blaming her she has actually ended up the sweet bond between them. At least the relationship has developed a crack if not entirely broken.

Well the readers must be thinking if the friendship is strong then these silly things never matter. But what if when you are struggling in your own life and suddenly someone dumps you with even more problems? What if you cannot retaliate in the same way?

Anita had only two choices. Either to answer her back which in this case she didnt and hence had to  let go off the thoughts which kept on bothering her. There are many things which we have to swallow just because we were unable to answer those people that we are not the root cause of the problems in your life. We always try to extend our hand for help. But what if those people never want your help? They simply want you as a media to release their stress but being sadistic. You will have to just let it go. Because confrontation always doesnt lead to positive results.



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